"I started Defence Unlimited in 2008 as a means to not
only teach the martial arts and self defence skills, but to also empower the
people of South Africa with potential crime-prevention solutions. I have made
it my mission to educate and empower people and to unlock their potential by
overcoming crime-related fears and frustrations, thereby allowing them to live
a happier, fulfilled and engaged life!"
This is the brief biography that I have published on my various
social media profiles. In this statement I had tried to put a large emphasis on
the "happier, fulfilled and engaged" portion.
In order to explain
this further, I need to refer to "Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs", a
model proposed by psychologist, Abraham Maslow, in his 1943 paper, "A
Theory of Human Motivation", which attempted to explain the needs of
people and how those needs would motivate them to take some action in order to obtain
them.
To briefly describe this hierarchy, it is a pyramid with the
largest, most fundamental levels of physiological needs at the bottom and the
need self-actualization at the top (see the diagram below).
At the bottom is the 1st physiological need such as the need for
air, water, food, sex, clothing and shelter. These are the basic needs that must
at the very least be met. If this need becomes too great, there are some individual
that may choose to obtain these needs by force, or illegally, thereby making that
person a criminals.
The 2nd need thereafter is one of safety, and includes
personal safety, health and well-being. Financial safety is also classified
under this need. A large portion of my efforts through Defence Unlimited is focused
on addressing these personal safety and well-being needs.
The 3rd level of human needs is interpersonal and
involves feelings of love and belonging. A person who has a need to feel
love and be loved, can draw on family and friends to fulfill this need. Then, on
a deeper intimate level, the person will normally seek out a mate/partner/spouse
to meet this intimate need. This is the normal path for most law-abiding
people. However, again like the previous need of physiology, this need may
become too much for the person and they resort to using less than legitimate
ways in obtaining it. It is a fact that this need can override the fundamental physiology
and safety need too. An example of this is in the case of children who will
still cling onto abusive parents; or in the case of gang member participating
in illegal and dangerous activity just to remain/belong to that peer group.
The 4th need is that of esteem, and refers to an
individuals need to have self-esteem and self-respect. Esteem also refers to
the typical human desire to gain recognition and/or be accepted and valued by
others, or to have a sense of contribution or value. However, again, like the
other previous needs, a lack of this need can lead to an individual to perform
criminal acts in obtaining this. Examples of this is rape that is motivated by
the offenders need to feel dominant and in control.
The 5th need is at the apex of the pyramid and is
the need for self-actualization. This level of need refers to what a person's
full potential is and the realization of that potential. Maslow describes this
level as the desire to accomplish everything that one can, to become the most
that one can be.
As mentioned, previously, my main focus is on addressing
these personal safety and well-being needs. However, notice that that this need
become under pressure from criminals’ need for all the other needs (barring the
self-actualization need) - the physiology, safety, love & belonging and
esteem needs. It is my vision to educate people in personal safety, self-defence
and personal development. Furthermore, I wish to empower people with realistic
personal protection and/or personal development skills.
Once these fundamental needs are met, we can start striving
towards the ultimate need, namely the self-actualization need. My personal
opinion is that I could never make a person "self-actualize". It is
something that the person will have to do by themselves (hence the
"self" in "self-actualization"), however, what I can do is
take them to the best level, namely assisting them in addressing the
"esteem need". To accomplish this need, I have created a platform in
which the person can accomplish this. I do this through getting people to
engage in social-uplifting and environmental-awareness activities that actively
contribute to building a harmonious global society.
I personally endorse the below initiatives because they either are very close to my
personal values, or are aligned with what I want to accomplish through Defence
Unlimited - to educate and empower people to unlock their potential by
overcoming crime-related fears and frustrations.
It is these three elements of education, empowerment and engagement
that I truly believe will help to unlock a person's potential, allowing him/her
to reach that apex of the pyramid!
With that said, the initiatives I endorse and recommend my
students and associates to engage in are:
Please feel free to click on any of these initiatives to see
how you can contribute!
Till next time. Get EDUCATED. Feel EMPOWERED. Positively ENGAGE.
Warren Ho
Founder of Defence Unlimited
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